My right boob is basically normal sized and doesn’t hurt at all but Jasper hates nursing from it unless I refuse to feed him from my left. my left is so engorged and when he latches the first thirty seconds hurt so bad. it doesn’t really hurt after that but i can’t seem to get the engorgement to go away. i have tried to hand express the milk from it but it barely does anything. i have tried alternating which side i start on, and only letting him nurse from one side at each feeding, and a bunch of other stuff the lactation specialists and our doctors said to do, but nothing so far. i know that it will take a month for everything to even out but i wish i knew something to do in the meantime to help.